Case Number 13  discover shoes in my youth

It didn’t take much for me to discover shoes in my youth, those women
visiting and living in my house were hot, sexy, erotic and well
dressed women that left lots of desirable imaginations for a young pre-
puberty child trying to figure out some of the changes he was going
through.  Interestingly, some of my mothers and sisters friends would
loan them or give them cloths and shoes they had worn for them to wear
and vice versa.  This open trading created a bit of interest on my
part.  This made access to women’s shoes very easy.  I suspect the
experimentation with shoes might not have occurred without this
access, and perhaps even more so the constantly changing clothing and
shoes.  One thing I know for certain, even in those early experiments
I would never have considered nor paid attention to most women’s
selection of non erotic cheap shoes.  Even to this day when worn by
great women they are not a turn on.

Let’s consider what very few of cases discuss.  When masturbation age
is just beginning most males and females are experimenting.  Most
don’t have access to a sexual partner at that age and never having had
an orgasm yet, they are just trying to figure out how things work.
Without the experience of a sexual partner they are looking for ways
to scratch that itch that starts to occur when your body is getting
ready to mature.  For males it may start getting hard, but not much
happens for quite some time.  Hence, they try touching, rubbing, than
experiment with things like underwear, fur, gloves, socks, nylons, and
just about anything that they can rub against or get their member into
to see how it feels.  If it feels good they probably try it again,
even though they have not had an orgasm.   I even have a note of a
person trying a toilet paper roll because it slid inside easily, but
they noted it didn’t feel very good and it wasn’t very erotic.  The
number of items to experiment with is probably gigantic and I am
willing to be many did just that.  Here is the kicker, the one that
feels so good to that person is probably where they will go when they
feel like experimenting with early masturbation.

Most adult men understand that a sexy pair of boots, stiletto heels,
or other erotic shoes are very hot on many women, and to one degree or
another it is a turn on for most of them.  It certainly is a turn on
for me.   Without the opportunity of those sexy shoes, and the visual
pleasure discussed earlier, even prior to a first orgasm I probably
would have never considered or grabbed a shoe and experimented with
it.

Like other objects I discovered many of them I could put my member
inside.  Once I started to try that, especially with the right sexy
shoes close by, you learn very fast that feeling of skin against the
soft leather inner lining of a high quality shoe.   Even the non shoe
fetishist can discover that a shoe allows you to penetrate into a very
soft chamber surrounding your member with a great feel, and if the
shoe is worn to just the right point you also discover it will have
creases and bumps that add to the soft feel of the inner surface.

As a child experimenting you learn how to move your member inside of
the shoe.  You discover what types and what surfaces gently blend
visual and physical pleasure to stimulate your member.  We agree that
it is not exactly what nature had intended the member to be used for,
penetration of a female.  If they discover using a little lubricant is
a great aid to this activity, they also discover that with the right
shoe it feels almost the same to their member as female sexual
penetration, I found that out.  That experiment and accident of my
youth, and for many others, is probably harder to recreate for an
inexperienced adult, but it did lead me to a life as a bisexual, that
is shoes and women.

OK, let’s get to the heart of the matter, no matter what a person
finds to feel good, none will probably ever stop doing it unless it is
consuming and destroying their lives.  I know I have no reason to even
consider doing so.   Like myself, most fetishists have found ways to
incorporate their passion into a fairly normal sex life.  I do ask my
partner to wear shoes or boots during sex, and they enjoy doing so
because, and I like a few shoes close by, but for me, it enhances my
excitement and I make certain to provide a world class orgasm for my
partner before I ever even consider doing her shoes.  I decided you
can get everything from most open minded women, if you provide
everything for your partner as well and first.

I remember that pre orgasmic time when things got hard but nothing
happened and so what, I didn’t know what should or could happen
anyway.  Becoming a fetishist, wasn’t planned, it took time and a lot
of trial and error pre puberty practice.  I didn’t wake up one day and
say today I love shoes.  However, shoes were to become my first
orgasm.

Just before the masturbation years I tried to feel and rub lots of
things against my member just because it got hard and it sometimes
felt very good.  In nature it seems boys to men know to eventually rub
or play with it.  At that age it is hard to ignore when it stands up
at almost any time for any reason and gets so hard it is almost
painful at times.  Even so I just wasn’t ready  and nothing happened
for a long time anyway.   I tried lots of things and all of it was
just simple contact and some gentle rubbing, sometimes just to push it
back down.

As I searched around the house for soft things to play with I found
that sexy shoes looked good and it didn’t take long to discover they
smelled good and that that mild blend of leather and woman got me
hard.

At that point I never even considered entering the shoe.  I would just
lay in bed with a shoe over my face and just smell them.  After a
while I figured I could hold them their if I tied them over my face
with my nose inside the shoe with a shoe string, string or just about
anything .  I had a private room, and it was fun.  It smelled great
made me hard, but so what nothing happened and a lot of time I would
just fall asleep with the shoe tied over my face and wake up from a
nap with a hard on again.

After a while of doing that, I don’t know why, but one day I decided
to slide my hard member into the shoe.  It was fine but I discovered
not being skillful yet that it wouldn’t stay ikn place when I took a
nap.  So I decided to tie a shoe onto my member with my member inside
of the shoe just like I had tied one over my face to smell the other.

It worked, it held the shoe in place while I enjoyed smelling the shoe
over my face.  I napped and woke up and it felt good and it was fun,
but still noting happened.  I continued this for quite some time
experimenting smelling different shoes and tieing them over my
member.  Than on day one of my sisters most attractive friends left
her a pair of well used black leather high heeled T-strap dance shoes
at the house for my sister to use.  I had the whole day alone with
them so at one point I decided to try my experiment with these.  I
really liked this girl.  I unbuckled the T-strap and tied it over my
face, and the smell of the leather was better than ever, it smelled
incredible.  Than as usual I got out some string and tied the other
over my member and it too felt really good inside.

Still nothing happened but as I got tired I decided to roll over and
take a nap as I enjoyed doing.

However, this time as I rolled over my face went deeper into the tied shoe over my face.  The friction against my still hard member felt more sensitive and different this time than it had all of those times before.  As my member moved deep within her shoe I felt an incredible tingling sensation.  I really didn’t know what to do or even to pump in and out of the toe of the shoe.  But, the movement of my body with this shoe tied and my member deep inside increased the tension and felt better than ever before.  I continued to move a bit in the shoe with my scrotum now held in place by the heel support of the shoe.  That only gave me room to pulse inside of the shoe a few inches at most.

So as usual I stopped because I didn’t know what it was and let it
subside just a little.   I didn’t expect anything anyway so who knew
how far to go with this, I didn’t.  But it felt great so rather than
nap I started moving a bit in the shoe again.  I also started to do
something else I never did.  I realized I liked this girl a lot and
that got me more excited.  Enough so that I started to kissing the
inside of the shoe like I had never kissed anything before.  I had
always enjoyed my mouth against the inside, the smell and the salt
when I accidently licked it with my tongue, but I never really thought
to actually kiss the shoes before.  As I did this for a while my mind
started to go blank with excitement and the tension increased as I
moved my body with the shoe on my member again and tried to move it
deeper into the shoe, than with a great surprise I exploded with
strong pulsations into the depths of the shoe.

It didn’t take long after that to learn the mechanics of my orgasm and
I began to look for this pleasure almost daily.  It was so much better
than all of the other things I had tried to date.  I also began to be
able to tell which shoes are great sex shoes, which ones just look
good but have no sexual feeling, and which shoes are just total
losers.  Those of us with a developed fetish learn fast that some are
better than others and the choices become just as difficult as looking
for a new girlfriend.  I now knew that as a budding shoe fetishist I
developed a point of view, understanding certain things that most
people with a fashion sense could never even begin to explain.  I got
it.  For me it is about the whole shoe, inside and out and it is about
it being well worn but not damaged because the wear signs and lines
are just as important to my fetish.

I suspect some very high demand fashion shoe and boot designers
probably have to have a solid shoe fetish as well.  How else could
they get the concept and create a great fetish shoe.   A fetish shoe
does look great and is certainly mostly high fashion, but it is also
about the inside construction as well.  For me, I know I would design
most shoes with high quality soft leather inside and out.

Later, I had to think hard about whether or not it was about the
leather.  My conclusion, NOT at all.  The material just happens to be
worn on the feet and leather does one of the best jobs of retaining
the wear and foot images as well as holding the aromas of the wearer
and when worn a while gains a nice smooth soft surface.   It is the
way they look, the way they wear, it is the curves created by the shoe
with wearer in them, or out of them.  Many of these fetish shoes
perfectly gain the lines and aroma of the foot wearing them.  They not
only add to the sexual appearance of the wearer, they feel good too.
That is why people adore fetish shoes and boots.  They are hot and
very sexual.  For the wearer the fantasy grows to the point at times
where the wearer knows it is making them look and feel hot, hot, hot
even adding more to the fantasy than any other article of clothing
they have on.  Most good looking women get this concept and what it
does to the male.

For the fetishist some times the wearer can be less important than the
shoe, especially if the wearer is not attainable.  They just can’t
wait, the shoes will do just fine.  Than later my next and greatest
discovery was that with a few drops of non staining lubricating gel
(KY gel) on my member things get even hotter.  They are ready, and in
the beginning they created friction and if you created to much, you
couldn’t finish without your member being sore.  So, the natural next
step was to find a way to move in and out with little friction, no
staining, no irritated skin, and the well worn surfaces of the leather
with gel felt even better adding to the friction of my penetration.
It will clean with a little water on a cloth so that she will never
know what you know.  This is what I learned to do with those dance
shoes later.  I couldn’t leave the dampness inside.

What a discovery shoes were for me, and what a fun experiment that
was.  It has now stayed with me most of my life and probably will
forever.   It's so funny how we just don't know what things share that
power to get us through the day until we give them a try.   I have
learned there are always those times when your ready and she's not and
you just have to let it go.  That's the perfect moment to head to the
closet and give a few shoes a try.   For those who have grown up and
missed the fetish forming years, and are locked into other forms of
alternatives, oh well.   Best wishes to you.  But for me this turned
out to be a wonderful experiment

Just a reminder, for most of us who have a fetish it takes a lot more
than your everyday shoe or boot to get things going, it takes a shoe
with style, fashion, some good wear lines a great soft leather lining,
a well worn, but not stinky fragrance, and a few imprints and creases
never hurt. My choice includes some curves in the leather or heels
that add sex appeal.   May I recommend that you have a tube of KY gel
or non staining sex gel handy if you decide to go to try this fetish.
As for any experiment, if you should choose to try this it is at your
own risk as a mature adult.   Be warned that if you try this, and it
turns you on, or if you already had even the slightest attraction to
shoes and boots, you could be looking at locking yourself into a life
long fetish.  Be careful with this, not all fetishists develop
reasonable behavior that includes partners and social encounters
outside of their fetish.  This can become a problem for some people
and there are fetishists who have developed antisocial behaviors.

Authors disclaimer:  It is not our responsibility nor will we assume
any responsibility for what any individual decides to do, try, or
become as a result of reviewing this very specific and concise
research that includes details of how a fetish develops, what they
feel, and how they do what they do.