The Shoe fetish and Boot fetish web site is a place to bring your shoe fetish passion, discussions, and stories out of the closet and into the light of day --- Thank you so much for your shared interest, and for some, your curiosity about shoe and boot fetishes. Statistics have it that there are +/-375,000 male shoe and boot fetishists in the U.S.A. alone.
That does not count women or the rest of the world population. That number of people in the U.S.A. alone makes having a shoe fetish newsgroup an important place for many, most of which are still, as they say, still "in the closet", to share stories and discussions in a world where having a shoe fetish continues to have the stigma that the gay lesbian community once had long ago. It is time for those with a shoe/boot fetish to accept their passion and preferences, and then ignore what the clearly jealous and undersexed world thinks, and get out of the closet and live your life. Who says there are no open minded people to share your life with. If you can actually love someone else and take care of them first, foremost, and before yourself then the world can open to you.
This site is dedicated to the gentle and more socialy inclusive side of shoe fetish behavior. Sure a shoe fetishist might use shoes and boots at times, and almost every human understands self play. Many play with themselves in many unusual at tmes and interesting ways I prefer with a lover, and for some they prefer alone. Either way I know, shoes can feel more like real sex than a hand. In my mind they are the end to masturbation as we know it.
Too many researchers that write about fetish behavior rarely include or consider the shoe fetish as a mutually acceptable and mutually pleasurable bedroom behavior for a couple. It is interesting when a designer shoe shopping woman with a secret passion for a lot of erotic shoes and a little more than a shopping interest meets a designer shoe fetish male or female with an incredible complimentary passion.
In my patience and height of arousal and desire to please my partner has lead me to become a Zen Master at oral sex. There is no greater oral sex than when you are giving oral sex to a woman and you are so excited and aroused that that passsion is felt in ever ymuscle of her body. This skill has at times not only satisfied all of my desires but in places where women talk with each other has created a very high demand to want to be with me. My discovery, in my twenties, around the time I lived with my first love, who by the way was an almost perfect brunette version of Jenna Jameson, was that women enjoy oral sex as much as I enjoy seeing them in a great pair of heels and getting so excited I can't help but move on up to oral sex. Don't get me wrong I think women love intercourse too, but often they enjoy great oral sex which is so hard to find and to my amzement, in great demand. Thank you guys --most men can't give love as well as they can take it. That perhaps is why some women can easily enjoy other women and those that are bisexual can certainly enjoy me.
Of course a shoe fetish is not for everyone and if you have a shoe fetish you already know your one of the choosen ones. No matter what you do it's going to be with you for life. So accept it and learn how to enjoy it. I suggest making certain you live your life and not alone. I assure you with the right open minded partner it can, and has been, at least for me, one of life's great gifts. However;
The Golden Key -- if you respect each others needs and always take care of your partner first then what follows can be a great experience for both of you.
It all depends on your partner, are they open minded enough? Then on you, whether you really care about them enough to really love them or more about their shoes, how much time you take, how romantic the setting is, and then what you do next and how you do it.
You may really love shoes but SORRY !!! If you are going to be an "I only want your shoes" and "I'm a macho into myself first person" -- well frankly go buy your shoes at a thrift store or on EBAY !!! Your probably never going to have a partner and your already in a lonely place on the dark side that I don't want to be.
As for those who can have a partner acept who you are and MAKE IT WORK !!! Don't let your partner convince you a you can get over your fetsih. It's like being gay, you can't get over it. Ypur fetish like being gay was a choice made in your mind long ago before you were sexually active. Accept it. Your life will be better for it.
As for me, I have a mild side of this fetish and couldn't imagine not having a woman to share all types of sex as well as shoes. After all if you can love really love a woman consider the bonus, if she has an open mind she will love you back and you will also have a never ending stream of used shoes.
This site contains moslty gentle passionate consensual shoe fetish & some mildly mutual dominance. The dark side of this or any behavior will be left to others. There will be No theft - buy your used shoes. No - wet, messy, or destructive activities - that's for someone else, No - BDSM fetish behavior that too is for others. NO - under the age of 21 anything - no people, no fetishes, - no nothing under 21 for any reason any time - NEVER !!! This is a mature adult site for consenting adults only.
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