SHOE FETISH -- Let me start this section by making a few comments and adding an accumulated personal point of view section.  

 

There are probably as many women who just love and collect shoes as there are male shoe fetishist counterparts.  However, with that said there are probably not very many who experiment with masturbating with a shoe or that turn on by shoe fucking.  “BUT” let me point out that for the last 20 or 30 years I have turned many women on with my shoe fetish and they have had perhaps some of the best orgasms they have ever had.  I’ll explain why later.  I might also add that you don’t jump in and just go for your shoe fetish and you can’t surprise them with it either.  You need an open minded partner who is willing to let you enjoy your fetish and soon you will be able to teach them a thing or two that they never knew or ever thought about.  Let me just say there is a very good reason besides looking good that those designers made all of these incredibly high quality shoes and some of them are just for people like me with a shoe fetish.

 

MALE SHOE FETISH; for men it is straight forward there are a variety of ways they can do shoes that I categorize in two segments.

 

The first includes all of the forms of shoe masturbation.  I define masturbation as any time you do a shoe and are manipulating it with your hands.  You can masturbate over a shoe and spill in it because it turns you on, you can put some silicone lube on your penis and slide it in and masturbate with it using your hands to move the shoe and create friction, you can rub your penis on a woman’s booted foot or boot, or shoe and come to an orgasm like a dog rubs against a person’s leg until they go, etc. I’m certain there are many more additions people can add that are still similar to masturbation.  If you are gay you can both do each other with shoes and have fun. 

 

The second includes actually fucking a shoe or having your partner actually fuck you with a shoe.  To keep it simple one way to do this is to place one erotic shoe that gets you excited on a bed and the other one about two feet in front of the first as you look at them the true shoe fetishist will get very hard.  Then they would lubricate their penis with perhaps a silicone sex lube and climb up over the shoe and ease themselves on top and plunging their penis deep into the shoe.  As they do that they might begin to smell the leather and start fondling and kissing the other shoe as they pump deep into the one they are now fucking.  It isn’t complex and not long after they will be so excited they will let go and have a shoegasm, clearly they will have fucked the shoe and not masturbated in it.  The difference, they did not use their hands in any way.  This form of shoe sex might appear strange tp soomeone without a shoe fetish, but if you have a shoe fetish you already know this replicates very closely real sex and only a shoe fetishist who also enjoys women can verify this too be true.     

 

 

WOMEN FUCKING SHOES and also LESBIAN SHOE FUCKING 

 

The good news is that some women just adore designer shoes and are already excited by them in their own way.  Some women still get so excited by a great pair of shoes they will wear them around the house or even at any age still may get so excited they might still put them where they can see them or for a few even take them to bed.  It may be close to but generally it has not crossed over to them sexually.  That is at least not yet!  However, most women just have never considered, and might not consider, what else might be done with them . 

 

Know this, some women will play and use their shoes to entice a partner and some who adore shoes won’t ever go past this or be disgusted by actually taking them to a sexual level.  The shoe fetishist needs to recognize this.  We all learn to move on when we need to.  You have a good chance if you are dating or with a woman who understands the power of designer shoes and uses that power too get to the next level.  Let’s not ever pretend a woman in Birkenstocks gets it, in my view probably not or they would have never even considered buying such a sexless shoe.  Anyway, the oral shoe sex part of a shoe fetish for women is so much easier and enjoyable than their trying to shoe fuck because someone saw it on the internet and didn’t understand the mechanics or the anatomy of a woman.  Let me share with you I have been incredibly successful at this with partners for almost all of my life but it isn’t something you just go to immediately unless your goal is to chase a woman away.  

 

You must always remember this sex play can be a blast for everyone but sometimes a shoe fetishist gets so hung up on shoes they forget their partner.  If your partner thinks you want their shoes more than them, then you can, “ Color them gone”.  If all you want is shoes and are not interested in the woman, or for a gay a man, then just go buy them on EBAY, a garage sale, or at a resale shop.  You can buy hundreds of used designer shoes and never hurt a real person.  Remember you don’t need the woman to fuck a shoe but it is also the loneliest form of fetish behavior and not a lot of fun for many.   

 

Let’s start by clearing up a few bits of nonsense on the internet.  There are many images of women sticking a heel up their vagina.  First no woman that I have ever met is going to put a high heel in her vagina unless she is stoned out of her mind.  Clearly the person creating and setting up the web image does not have a shoe fetish and neither the woman or the photographer have any idea what to do with shoes, but they will now.  Shoe fetish behavior is so in the closet details are hard to find on what to do.   Let’s go back to the heel, it’s plain dumb to think a woman would want to do this without direction!!!  Ever look closely at a heel the rubber heel is sharp, and has very sharp corners and in my view would hurt or tear the soft vaginal surfaces.  The heel may be slightly phallic but it also does not look like any penis I have ever seen.  So using a heel too fuck a woman is probably a lot of nonsense for any loving person who is not a sadistic do harm person.  With that said someone will probably come back with a comment that says different.  Unless they round and smooth the corners of a heel, “I’ll stand by my comment”.

 

Second, there are images with a pointed toed shoe stuck 4 to 5 inches into a vagina, so far up a woman’s vagina that it just simply looks painful and not erotic.  Being a fully experienced shoe fetishist I cannot think or consider any way that this would make sense as a phallic stimulator.  There would be no reasonable way to stimulate the woman with 4 to 5 inches of shoe stuck up their vagina it just looks interesting as a photo image on an  uninformed shoe fetish sex site an early inexperienced fetishist might think this  is the way it is done.  “NOT”.  Just imagine trying to pump a shoe that is 4 to 5 inches into a woman in and out of her vagina in this way that is exciting to her or stimulates her clitoris, even if in some strange way it may be exciting to a shoe fetishist there are improved ways too actually do this. 

 

Then there are the lesbian women who rub against boots or that try to mount and then fuck the point of a woman’s boot.  The images are interesting but a vagina isn’t horizontal and putting a dirty boot inside her vagina is probably more illusion than reality.  BUT, there is a way that can work.  Also no sandals, open toe shoes, buckles, trim, or designs that can interfere with the soft smooth leather surface.  This goes for both men and women clearly a variety of cheap plastic Payless type shoes are not going to be soft enough or easy enough to use in a reasonable way for most people, except someone with a cheap shoe fetish. 

 

SO HOW EXACTLY CAN YOU GIVE A WOMAN ONE OF THE BEST ORGASMS SHE HAS EVER HAD USING A VERY HIGH QUALITY DESIGNER SHOE OR BOOT? 

 

  

PREPARATION for both oral shoe sex, oral sex, and shoe fucking;  Just some thoughts and ideas you do this at your own risk  in your own way.

 

PREP #1;     To start with you need to select your shoes carefully.  This is easier if you have a partner you can ask her, or him, or buy them for her picking out shoes that you find incredibly hot and erotic.  If you date others you may need to collect your own used women’s shoes and boots  in a variety of sizes and ask her to wear them for you.  Don’t spring your shoe collection on an unsuspecting new partner until you determine she knows your fetish ad that you still want her.  If she is willing and does wear them for you then you already know she gets that you’re a bit kinky and may be open minded to other things too.  I suggest talking with her openly and honestly and asking for to wear, or use, very well worn and used smooth pointed toe all leather high heels or boots and leather lined.  They must not be patent leather or suede but with a fine high quality leather sole.  Patent leather is for the plastic fetishists and even water soluble sex gel that washes off can ruin suede.   Why used, because it turns the fetishist on to greater excitement and when the fetishist is excited they will do a better job exciting the woman.  Second because the creases in a soft leather of the toe can be used to stimulate her.  If you have not figured it out most shoe fetishists love used shoes that reflect the wearer.  New shoes to me are just that factory shoes and have not yet gained the sexuality of the wearer. 

 

·  PREP #2;     Then the fetishist, if they have a chance to, must do some creative work using perhaps a fine file and some sand paper.  They need to review the sole and round and sand any rough edges between the sole of the shoe and the toe leather of the upper.   Just sand the sole until when you run it over your tender skin the edges are dull and won’t irritate you.  I know it sounds like a lot of work but this is the key to success and I’ve done many women with many of the used Monolo’s, Gucci’s, Chanel’s, and Jimmy Choo's in my collection.

 

·  PREP #3:      Sanitation, the last thing you need is to use a street shoe and infect your partner.  That would be curtains for ever doing it again and any chance of a relationship.  Also she must know that you cleaned them very well.  Yes of course she can still wear them to bed and if you keep your home and floors very clean even better.  So I start by sanding or buffing off the rest of the sole to remove any dirt or scratches that could hold bacteria.  For a first cleaning of a shoe I might use alcohol and cotton balls and wipe all of the surfaces of the shoe.  If I’m really concerned I might use a fragrance free quaternary cleaner to disinfect them and  then follow that up with an alcoholl cotton ball rub.  Most of the time I just do the alcohol cleaning of the surfaces.  Remember you both will have fluid contact with the shoe and the last thing you need is an infection.   Yes you must clean to tops as well as the bottoms especially if these were street shoes.

 

·  I never polish them because that defeats the purpose and removes the actual wear lines.  I don’t clean the inside either, but others might.  That’s at your own risk but I like the thought of a woman’s foot in a sexy used designer shoe, to me that is hot and I won’t remove it.

 

·  PREP #4;   OK now the shoes are almost ready foor action, but, I have one more personal hygiene mandate I expect both of us to take a bath and clean our bottoms very well.  I don’t get turned on by oral sex with an unclean partner.  Foul odors are not for me and I want to smell the clean her as well as the leather.

 

·  PREP #5;   Some fetishists love to do dry high friction surfaces that can irritate both their penis and a woman.  I don't!!!  So now I  need a few items to make things well lubricated.  I recommend a KY type gel or a private label version, and then KY Intense which is an expensive KY product designed to make her clit more sensitive.  By the way KY Intense works and you only need a couple of drops on her clit.  Then some silicone lubricant for your penis later if she goes so well she now wants to fuck you with the shoe you did her with.   However, you do need a lot more KY gel on the toe of the shoe to reduce friction.  The good news is it is water soluble and wipes and  washes off easily and  probaably won't ruin your fetish shoes.          

 

WOMAN’S “ORAL” SHOE FETISH ORGASM

I’m going to keep this part simple because it really is.  Once you are prepped the rest is almost a natural turn on the surfaces of the pointed shoe or boot are now soft and they won’t hurt the sensitive skin of her vagina and clit.  Your KY intense, gel, silicone lubricant, and perhaps a few tissues if things get messy are all close by on the bed along with a few pairs of shoes to change into if she wants to.  Let’s face it a few pairs is exciting for the shoe fetishist to have close by.

 

Everything else would be whatever way she likes it generally a variety of foreplay prior to oral sex.  Have fun and be patient and let the excitement grow for both of you.  Now you work your way to the 69 position in whatever way you both prefer and you start to do her clit.  So far everything is as it has been.  So now you reach for a shoe or boot and ease it with the toe tip pointing toward her clit from behind her and as you are kissing her clit gently ease the tip and the top of the shoe toward your tongue and gently touch her with just the tip while kissing her clit and at the same time the tip of the shoe.  Now back it off and add about an inch ribbon of KY gel along the toe and ease it back over her vagina again lubricating her vaginal lips.  The surprise for her is really great oral sex of her clit and the triangular surfaces of the pointed shoe box and top fits perfectly along the sensitive lips of her vagina with the back side touching and stimulating the back side and just slightly under her  clit while your tongue is doing her front side of all of the surfaces of her clit.  That ribbon of gel was to lubricate the front 2 inches or so of the vaginal lips ending at the clit so you don’t have too much friction and hurt or irritate the vaginal lips or her clit. Now, just a few minutes after starting, ease the tip away and to the vey toe tip add 3 or 4 drops of KY Intense and place it with the toe of the shoe directly on her clit.  Now continue where you left off with the surprise that she has now become incredibly more sensitive. 

 

Now you both win because you are gently kissing and licking her clit as you kiss and lick the shoe that perhaps she had just worn and you just took off of her hot sexy foot.  The result of the gentle friction of this well lubricated toe box is a gentle pulsing along a few inches of her vagina along with her clit.  You are doing her clit and the shoe is doing her vaginal sensitive lips.  Unless she has done this before she has never had this much gentle oral stimulation, ever, and let me certify here, it works incredibly, sometimes very fast, and can turn easily into multiple orgasms for her.  As she gets excited she will probably and naturally start humping and pulling your head and the shoe closer for more friction your tongue and the shoe or boot will then rub her firmly but gently and harder and the toe point may start to ease slightly further into her vagina.  Let her, this may be where she is the most sensitive and she is guiding you, BUT, resist pushing the shoe into her vagina and trying to watch her fuck the shoe.  I know you want to, but don’t do it.  This is about her enjoyment and not about you this time.  DO NOT, I REPEAT, do not try to enter her vagina and fuck her with the shoe unless she simply makes you do it. 

 

You want her to enjoy and love your shoe fetish before you go further and if you rush this she may end up hating it and never ding it again.  Is that what you want?  I didn’t think so.  So don’t be self-centered, this is her time let her have it and be patient for another time in the future.   If you really do this well you will have another time and get to increase your fetish play.  If it is the right woman she will appreciate what you have done so well she may take the shoes right off of her feet and slide your penis in and fuck you with them.  However, give her some space to learn how your fetish works and let her know she can enjoy parts of it too. If she is so excited she wants to turn around and get fucked by you, what’s wrong with that, you both will enjoy that too.  Simply put you need to let it flow her way. 

 

 

WOMEN CAN FUCK SHOES &

 

For lesbians if they love their dildo’s they will probably also love shoe fucking.  First do everything noted in the oral sex section above and once she has done this a few times she might be ready for the next step.  The only change is that she needs to be really well lubricated or wet for this.  So I use another inch of gel this time placing it on the top of the toe box tip that touches her clit and on the sole tip both an inch or so back so that it too can slide easily.  As she gets excited while you are using the tip there is one change that needs to be slowly made.  Turn the shoe sideways so that the toe box and sole are now parallel to her vaginal opening.  Continue kissing her clit and the sideways tip can now touch the under her clit layers gently creating more stimulation for her as she gets more excited and starts to pulse against you move the toe back a bit and allow it to gently ease into her lubricated vaginal opening.  Now you are giving her oral sex as the shoe becomes a natural dildo and slowly enters her vaginal cavity.  If you do this right and pulse it gently and slowly she will begin to fuck the shoe and push and hump into herself perhaps 2 to 3 inches into her vagina.  I have had a woman push the whole 3 to 4 inch toe box into her vagina this way and hump and fuck it while I gave her oral sex.  If you’re gentle and patient it works and for lesbians it is a way to get your partner closer and inside you without using a plastic synthetic toy.    

 

My dream is that I could personally teach every beautiful woman in the world how to do this.  Oh well I’d love to but there are too many women and most are just too far away and I’m not so easy to get and very selective about my women and their shoes.  Perhaps I will get to teach one or two more this way.  Perhaps not.  

 

 

 

However, now it is your turn to teach someone.  I have kept this to myself all of my adult life and now the time has come for the shoe fetish to come out of the closet.    

 

“There are two women in my life, one I'm with & incredible the other my complicated dream that I have never met.  I'm blessed to be a Zen Master at one thing; One woman knows, one may never know”. 

 

 

But now you all know why I am a Zen Master and for those who enjoy open minded sex let me share with you these are the details you may need to have an incredible play time if you already have a passion for shoes or a full blown shoe fetish.  Let me share with you I am nice looking, now even a bit older, but I'm no super model, and I never considered myself a guy women line up for, yet my ability at shoe play and oral sex has given me a reputation and demand that women want, and they do talk, and then they will try to chase you.  It didn't take long for them to decide I was literally a great fuck.  I know now that so can so many more shoe fetishists be a great fuck if they just turn to the needs to, and their focus on their partner.  

 

 

"Practice grasshopper, if you focus they will cum".