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SHOE FETISH ---A Short History of the Sexual Revolution
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He follows a path that I noted earlier that I felt was important to consider. He states, “Imagine a world where everything specific about sex is denied, obscured, or covered up but where sexual excesses flourish! In this world: physicians write manuals claiming sexual restraint promotes better health while males admit they think constantly about women and vaginas and the supposedly sexless females plan affairs and know how to get an abortion. Parents and "experts" say children are not sexual beings yet they worry that kids will engage in sex play. Some parents even seduce their own children, prostitution secretly flourishes, and shameless "gay" women walk the streets. This world has no talk shows, no international phone calls, no 900 numbers, and no nudist camps. This world has not heard of testosterone, the pill, transsexuals, or gay rights ("gay" is a slang term for prostitutes!). This was the English speaking world of about 150 years ago!” That is my point exactly, when many of these foundation materials were written impropriety was of great concern. It was much more important to be proper than to be accurate or open in our discussions about sexuality. Of course it went on, but hidden behind a veil of obscurity and secrecy. The definition of normal was portrayed to set the tone of behavior in a society that could not discuss the issue of sexuality open enough to realize or understand what normal actually is. In the closet, a once appropriate place for a shoe fetishist, perhaps it still is, especially if they are looking for a hot pair of shoes to play with. The closet, became the place where all things were considered hidden because the scorn and price of open discussion was much to high. As recent as a few years ago on a national TV show a celibate minister was uncovered as having a shoe fetish and a collection of women’s shoes and the TV program went on to scorn, embarrass, and harass him. Sounds a lot like gay behavior was treated, and still is in many peoples minds. It would seem that a good shoe fetish should be preferred to a minister abusing children? NOTES FROM CHAPTER 8. Issues in brain research This writer goes a long way to portray the problems in men are all about the “Y” chromosome. He notes; ”Certain deviations such as voyeurism, exhibitionism, homicidal sadism, and fetishism are virtually never encountered in women. Excepting female homosexuality, trans-sexuality and masochism (yet these last two are still more frequent in men) it is a remarkable fact that sexual deviations occur exclusively in men (Flor-Henry, 1987:50). But it is not just in the field of deviancy that men have a poorer record than women. The Y-
In my view, this is all possible, but, the major difference between men and women is that men have a member that is much easier to use in fetish behavior than a woman’s vagina. It does seem basic and obvious to me, but it does not seem to appear as a reason in much of the sexual research. Men looking to masturbate because of their member can look for things to masturbate with or into. A man can use a shoe and ease in with a bit of KY gel, or better yet the newer silicone sex lubricant, then clean his member off. A woman can not easily place a shoe inside of her vagina even with KY gel. Although this would seem to have its problems and concerns for sanitation. As for clitoral stimulation, eureka, I have found evidence in many places on the internet, soome of which may be staged, that this can work for women as well as men and I have seen it and know it can be pleasurably done, if carefully, with women. Although there are no inner body surfaces contacting a fetish item for a male that makes it much easier for men to simply put it in, wash it off, and have a good time. This offers greater opportunities for diversions and stimulation. What areas and concerns there might be for infection may still exist but may certainly be smaller and less likely to create problems that a woman might have, although there are some.
However, that is not to say that the deviations that a woman can have do not happen, they do, they just are less public, appear more limited, and this may be due to design and the ability given a reasonable use for her clitoral surface as noted above. Female homosexuality, trans-sexuality and masochism include a lot of variations and concepts and are not reproductive sex. It has never been stated to my satisfaction exactly why women enjoy their shoes and boots so much or why they enjoy erotic selections. Some women have extensive collections of shoes and boots. It seems they clearly do understand their attraction, and for some they may also understand their additional use, and they have made high fashion, including erotic shoes and boots their reciprocal part of the sexuality game. It is no surprise that stars wear hot shoes and boots to perform. The question is than, what else do they know? |