SHOE FETISH ---
How to Satisfy a Shoe Fetish
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This was found on the open internet through Google the best we can find is it may have been posted on a site called eHow by an unknown Contributing Writer. As sexual obsessions go, shoe fetishes are among the least risky and easiest to satisfy. More than likely, every sexual partner you'll ever have will wear shoes on a daily basis.
Difficulty: Easy
Instructions
1. Step 1
Look for a partner who enjoys shoes. Even if it's not part of a sexual fetish, many women enjoy shopping for attractive shoes and understand what attracks men to them, at least the appearance attraction. If she already has an appreciation for fine shoes, it may be that much easier to incorporate them into your sex life, but, cheap advise, go slowly. A full shoe fetish is much to much to drop on anyone at one time. If she could care less about shoes and you can't live wihtout them, well, you may have hit a dead end and you can move on sooner rather than have a problem later, and if she hates the concept you will have a problem later.
2. Step . 2
Encourage your partner to get pedicures. From sandals to open-toe stiletto heels, there are many types of shoes that show off the toes, and many shoes that don't that you may just adore. When she is happy with her feet, and many women hate their feet, (go figure?) and they look their best, your partner will be more likely to show them off.
3. Step 3
Surprise your partner with a sexy pair of shoes. However cowboy, even if it's fairly common for couples to exchange lingerie or sex toys don't assume to much too fast. When Valentine's Day rolls around, instead of corset tops or vibrators, give your partner a red-hot pair of shoes. However, you might want to make certain she is receptive to that kind of gift first. If your fetish is all about you, and she thinks your gift is just one to please your fetish, well frankly you could be dead on arrival.
4. Step 4
Ask your partner if she owuldn't mind wearing shoe during your sexual encoiunters. I suggest you try to explain to your partner that you find them erotic and exciting on her. Even if they're just her normal work shoes, it's a start. If she sees how much enjoyment and excitement it brings you, and when she realises it makes you more excited as you do her, she may be more likely to indulge your fantasy again because you both win.
5. Step 5
A true fetishist enjoys shoes for more than their look or feel. Sniffing the aroma of very well worn shoes or leather shoes belnded with her aroma can be a very prevocative way to experience them and feel closer to your partner at the same time. Remember a well worn shoe has aromas that are very much related to sexual odors.
6. Step 6
When all else fails and you are alone and have no obligaitons to satisfy your partner, well, masturbate using shoes you find sexually stimulating. Many shoe lovers get their fix privately and discreetly by using shoes while pleasuring themselves. Climbing on top of and setting it insiude a sexy pair of red-leather pumps or a high heeled zippered black leather Jimmy Choo boot is just devine. I doing the inside of the shoe to beating off on the outside. It feels more like intercourse that way. I adore climbing on top with of a really hot sexy shoe with a little silicone sex lube things glide incredibly well and you feel every crease and bump.
My advice to keep your relationship is to always talk with your partner. I assure you one day they will find out and if they are not open to your shoe fetish to begin with you could have a very big, no a really big problem.
At first many partners may conclude and rightly so if you rush to fast or act stupid that you love their shoes more than you love them and even if you love them both you need to remember the shoes can't talk so ALWAYS love your partner as your prime directive.
7. Step 7
Frequent websites that explore your fetish. No matter what the kink, the Internet will have a website dedicated to it. Since some people aren't comfortable discussing a shoe fetish with others, the Internet can be a convenient and discreet way to satisfy all those naughty-shoe urges.
8. Step 8
Explore fetishes with crossover appeal. Elements of foot fetishes and dominance/submission role-play involve a practice known as "foot worship." Finding a partner who likes to have his feet worshiped can be a gateway to satisfying your own fetish for shoes.
This sites added "Tips & Warnings"
Real Mutual Love, Patience, and Confidence are the keys to exploring any sexual activity. If you find your partner's shoes especially alluring, let her know, discuss your interests. The positive encouragement and open discussions will let her know your interests and if she's on the right track.
We live in a society that perhaps is not as open minded as we might like to think it is. It seems fair to me to let your partner know early what passions and needs are. If you are not with an open minded partner both of you could be hurt in your relationship as it evolves or suddenly ends. Also consider if you are selfish about your pleasures and fail to consider, or ignore your partners needs, you probably don’t deserve to have a partner and you can turn inward to a relationship with your shoes by yourself. This clearly after a while is missing a lot of fun, a real partner, in real shoes. WoW !!!
