So, it finally dawns on me an even more  possible reality for how and why my shoe boot fetish lives. This may also work for others, but we can’t speak for all shoe fetishists.

First many may not ever develop a true shoe fetish passion for many other simple reasons that in their culture they just don’t have the same stimulus or access to great shoes. They may learn and have a different passion.  That’s fine but for this summary the focus on those who do and maybe what their subconscious mind may be thinking.  I have concluded that mine does, yes I have more than a small fetish, I have a flaming shoe boot fetish. 

For this fantasy I selected a shoe that I don't have but is available to many on EBAY.  (Yes I did finally buy it, and sorry this particular shoe just didn't really work very well).  The problem was the inexpensive lining.  No matter what I tried it was a challenge.  I moved on to one of the higher quality shoes.   For me it's No sandals but shoes that cover the foot and no running shoes that hold little odor and have poor sex surfaces.  Open toes are just fine.  Sandals are clearly in many cases for those with a foot not a shoe fetish.  The affordable option I tried to use here was the Lucky Brand women's slip on open toe shoe posted above here.  This one is very used which for many is needed for their shoe fetish excitement.  After it failed I moved on to a Monolo pump.  

Now we move to the story on what for many might be the basis for some men wanting to penetrate this fairly erotic shoe.

We already agree it's not just the heel height but also the construction and the very clear evidence of her wearing them that gets most of us excited.  

I posted a jpeg of two women: look at the shoes on the woman to the left.  Lots of curves and very sexy but consider her foot inside the shoe and the slight toe exposure.  The curves of her foot looks a lot like a penis resting gently on the inside of the shoe.  Her foot Gently curving down from the heel like the picture above, and every step she takes a fetishist can fantasize that her foot and toes are penetrating the shoe deeper and with every step the fetishist might see shoes and feet as her foot moves all the time they are worn inside of the shoe and each movement as her foot fucking the shoe.  No she has no clue it's my fantasy view!  This can go on for many years and she never knows what your mind thinks or that you have a fetish. 

Is she aware that some men with a fetish might think of her walking and every step as her feet having sex with her own shoes?  Only a fetishist knows, the woman No not even a little she just thinks she is wearing shoes.  Some know when they are buying and then wearing sexy shoes but most have no clue further than that.  Unless the fetishist is staring most women don't even consider that a shoe fetishist wants to make love to and fuck her shoes.  

Very few women ever even consider the curve of their foot inside the shoe or that some men have a shoe fetish.  It is a large population fetish that no one hardly talks about and when they do it is very negative.  We have all had partners in the past that have been surprised by this attraction and yes a few were disgusted. 

We have all met women, and yes you must realize some women hate their feet and think they are ugly.  Perhaps why they select such ugly and sexless shoes.  For them the shoe fetishist also becomes disgusting. They do realize and can sense when some men are focused on their legs and feet and most women might avoid them thinking this is creepy. Yes, Some women love shoes in a collecting way and a few go for designer shoes in a big way, and a few cross into a shoe fetish or are receptive to turning on to shoes.  Many might only be able to afford one or two pairs but others may have many and it seems more buy used shoes on EBAY where they might be affordable.  Thos with a bigger budget may have walk in closets filled with shoes they love not understanding much about the mens fetish.  Some do understand men love sexy shoes and women use them as a way to get attention and attract men and of course some women want to attract women.  However, they never envision their walking or their foot inside a shoe or boot as a penis with every step penetrating deep inside those sexy shoes.  The shape of our feet do have similarities to a penis.  As a result many  fetishists might see every step as the woman’s foot having pulsing with every step and having sex with every step and in some fetishists fantasy they see the feet as fucking their shoes, their feet and toes, moving inside.   

When a used woman’s shoe is added to our collections of used women's shoes most consider her foot wear lines and the character of each well worn used shoe. 

Many learn to make love to one while fucking the other.  Many might look at the inside sole of the left shoe, why the left? Just an example of why, so we are not making love and kissing the shoe we have sex with.  Some actually might prefer to kiss the shoe they have sex with.  If the shoe is the it shoe of the day, the shoe will excite us and draw us in and we won’t be able to resist.  If it does it’s a winner.  we are Inside looking for the shape of the inner sole of the shoe and we might imagine her foot deep inside penetrating and moving as she walks.  If it has a worn in impression of her foot even better, and if it has leather odors along with her foot odors, and if we can get our face down into the inner sole.  If it’s the one and we are preparing to have sex with it we might start kissing and making love to it as if it was a woman and our  members grow and get ready for penetrating the right shoe.  We consider the heel of her foot as a place where after we penetrate along the length of her foot inside the shoe our balls come to rest and it holds us in place as we begin to rock and penetrate deeper into the shoe.  As we have sex and our intensity grows many are imagining her foot moving and her toes fucking the shoe as we might look at the wear lines on the outer surfaces of the shoe as we love the inner sole.  Is it Fantasy? Perhaps? Or is it true love?    Regardless it is so much fun. 

So let’s consider the Gucci Helena Boot or the Monolo pump she is wearing on this page.  This was bought as a result of writing this fantasy about those shoes.  It has great ware lines and easy access to the inner sole.  This is an EBAY shoe so our fantasy as to the wearer is open and not really relevant.  Most, or many of us don’t care about the wearer we care about the shoe or boot.  For some at times knowing who wore them adds heat to the fetish.  However, a true shoe fetishist only needs the pair of shoes or boots  alone.  If it is the right shoe we are in love and could care less about the wearer.  Some even might look at the shoe or boot and want to marry them. Other don’t even consider shoe monogamy, they want shoes.  As they see more sexy well worn shoes they want more in their collection.  That is when you know you have a full blown shoe fetish.  It’s really the shoe that turns you on.  As we heat up from loving the left shoe many often times lubricate and climb on top of the right shoe.  Now as our penis slowly and electrically enters the shoe we go deeper our balls settle in to the well shaped heel.  The foot looks like a penis and now my penis is where her foot was.  No most of us that are not gay are not thinking about penises we are thinking about her curved foot and sexy toes. With lube on our penis slides deep inside the shoe and we begin to rock and penetrate even deeper.  We are now fucking the shoe our fantasy may include imagining her walking in them.  As we love the left shoe even harder we consider how her foot and toes might penetrate deeper and then we too go deeper and now we are actually fucking the shoe.

The people in research who write about fetishes fall short of what is actually happening because they really do not understand the feelings or depth of the passion of the shoe fetish.   Many try to equate one fetish as the same as other fetishes.  I do not agree, there are differences even in the shoe fetish and what the shoe fetishists passion is.  Literally, pun, one size does not fit all.

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